Just In Time: How To Give The Perfect Blow Job

Just In Time: How To Give The Perfect Blow Job
POSTED ON March 11, 2015

The truth about how to give the perfect blow job is that there really are no secrets. Anyone and everyone is capable of doing it  - and we’re sure your partner is happy you want to give him blow jobs to begin with, let alone perfect ones! But since tomorrow is Steak and Blow Job Day, the male answer to Valentine’s Day, we thought it would be the perfect time to divulge some of our tips on how to take your blow job game to the next level.


Not every woman loves giving blow jobs, but if it’s important to her partner (and he’s equally reciprocating and receptive of her desires, of course), learning how to give the perfect one can only do wonders for their sex lives. Even women who do love giving blow jobs could probably stand to incorporate a new maneuver or two.

This weekend, take some of our tips into the bedroom with the mindset that you’re going to give him the best blow job of his life.

1. Mix up your technique.

Do this during the same “job” – go between using one hand, both hands, and not using your hands at all. Go slower, go faster – try to read his body. Especially if you’ve been together for a long time, you should be able to gauge his reactions quite well.

2. Make a sexy game of it.

The Perfect Blow Job

You can make how to give the perfect blow job into a racy little game by assigning him physical cues that he can give while your head is buried in his crotch that will direct you without either of you having to break the sexy suction spell. For example, if he pulls your hair, that can mean to go faster. If he smacks your ass, that can mean to slow down. We’re pretty sure that once you sit down to choose the cues, you won’t be getting back up until you’ve tested them out.

3. Look him in the eyes.

Do this while he’s in your mouth. He wants to see your face, and he wants to see himself slide in and out of your mouth. If you need a breather, tell him how much you’re enjoying it. Talk a little dirty, and maybe even beg for more. If you give him a show while you’re down there, it’ll be one blow job that he won’t soon forget.

4. Work that gag reflex.

The Perfect Blow Job

Be prepared to flex your gag reflex. This is not easy for everyone to do, and some people will never be able to do it, but if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job, obtaining some control over your gag reflex is highly recommended. Even just showing him that you’re trying is sure to turn him on like crazy. (But don’t do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.) For a desensitizing effect that could make things easier, try the Comfortably Numb Deep Throat in Spearmint.

5. Incorporate sex toys.

How To Give The Perfect Blow JobAdult sex toys such as restraints – for either of you - are just one exciting way to amp up the action. Restrain him so that you are in complete control, and watch him go wild with desire when he’s unable to move a muscle. When it’s your turn to be restrained, the reins will be in his hands while yours are tied up behind you. Let him position you, direct you, even move your head around – we’re fairly certain he’ll agree that this is one way to guarantee how to give a perfect blow job.

6. Be thorough.

In other words, don’t ignore his testicles, but you might want to ask him first, because although many men love it, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Be playful, and if he’s into it, treat the testicles just like you would his penis. Lick, suck, cup them in your hands – he’ll go wild, especially if you’ve never really done this before.

7. Make it last.

How To Give The Perfect Blow Job

Although oral sex is often the appetizer to sex’s main course, that doesn’t mean the blow job should only last a few minutes before you move on (unless, of course, that’s what you both want). When you’re giving the perfect blow job, treat him to a longer experience than usual, and it will make the sex that comes after even more explosive. Bring him to the brink during the blow job, slow things down, and then do it all over again!

Whether you’ve given a few or a few thousand, anyone could use a little refresher course in how to give the perfect blow job. Celebrate Steak and Blow Job day with your partner tomorrow by adding some of our sexy tips to your blow job repertoire. But as for the steak, well, you’re on your own there!


Check out more sex tips, browse our many collections of adult sex toys, and don’t forget to come back for the male counterpart to this post on how to give her the best oral sex of her life!

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