POSTED ON May 14, 2015
May is just all about touching, isn’t it? With Masturbation Month and Massage Month well underway, we thought it was the perfect time to share our thoughts on how to give a sexy massage.
Since all massage products are buy one, get one 50% off all month long (with code Massage), now’s your chance to get the essentials. Spend a quiet night at home with each other, relaxing and creating the perfect environment to bring a whole new meaning to sexy massage.
Ambiance & Atmosphere
The setting is an important part that might be all too easily forgotten in how to give a sexy massage. Candles are a great way to create a romantic atmosphere. Try the the Caress Candles from Shunga, in Libido or Vanilla, which will set the mood and make great massage oil once it has melted. The wax will be nice and warm for a soft and lovingly sexy massage.
Many types of candles can enhance your massage. The moisturizing, skin repairing, and naturally softening ingredients in candles such as the Melt My Heart Massage Candle in Dark Chocolate, Strawberry, or Caramel will take your massage game to the next level. If exotic flavors are your forte, check out more of Shunga’s offerings in Island Passion Fruit, Tropical Plumeria, or Mediterranean Almond.
If you prefer to use your candles strictly for lighting, you’ll need just the right massaging oils for you and your partner. Our Guide to Massaging Oils should help you choose among the many options, but a few tips are always in order.
- When deciding on the right oil, consider the energy you’d like to create with your massage. Lavender, for example, relaxes, while ginger brings a bit of sweet heat.
- Don’t pour right onto your partner’s body. Pour it into your hands first, which should heat it up just enough to feel great against the skin.
- Make sure you have plenty of oil. Save yourself the worry and always have more than you’ll need rather than what you think might be enough.
Motions of Massage
Consider some massaging techniques to make your sexy massage skills even better. These include:
Compression: This refers to laying one hand flat on the part of the body, pressing the other hand on top, and rotating slowly. Use it all across the body.
Kneading: Just like bread, kneading refers to lifting and squeezing fleshy areas. That means it’s perfect for the butt, thighs, and biceps.
Stroking: This is all about keeping your fingers together, palms down, and making long, gentle motions along the body. It’s good for the back and thighs as well as the neck and feet.
How to give a sexy massage begins at the top. Start with his or her upper body, and use compression on the shoulders, neck, and back, the most common places people think of when they think of massages.
Slide down to the butt, then legs, and down to the feet. Giving a sexy massage is a lot like extended foreplay, just with more specific touching.
Carefully caress all over your partner’s body, making sure to knead around the butt, stroke the legs, and give the feet some extra love and gentleness. (People with foot fetishes may pay a little more attention to this part of the massage!) From the feet jump to the hands, which should be massaged in a similar way, starting at the bottom and proceeding along the fingertips.
Here’s the part we’ve all been waiting for, when how to give a sexy massage gets even sexier. After all this caressing, anyone’s body would be suitably responsive to even more sensual touching, of the breasts, penis, butt, thighs… all the favorite erotic hot spots. Make sure to pay attention to how good your partner is feeling so you can make them feel even better. At this point, it’s safe to say you’ll both be so turned on that incredibly hot sex is next on the menu.
You can also employ personal massagers into the act, which can double as sex toys either later on or from the get-go, depending on how you view caressing with a massager. Toys like the Bodywand Aqua, Smartwand, and Magic Wand Original can help relax all over the body during the massage with the amazing vibrations usually reserved for the clitoris.
The HelloTouch from JimmyJane is a unique type of massager that will enhance how to give a sexy massage. This wearable vibrator is composed of finger pads that will turn your fingers into veritable pleasure machines. HelloTouch is known for being smaller and three times more powerful than other types of fingertip vibrators.
Massages are a great way for couples to bond. The simple act of touching to produce relaxing, calming sensations paired with the intimacy of paying close attention to how your bodies are reacting is one of the sexiest ways to get into the mood.
Explore even more ways to get in touch with how to give a sexy massage with any of our massage products, which are buy one, get one 50% off all month long with code May50! This is valid online and in-store, so find a Lover’s Lane near you. We’re also giving away a premium massage package courtesy of Shunga this month, so enter now for your chance to win!