Ready or not, Valentine’s Day is almost here! While some folks just aren’t fans of this particular holiday, we think it’s pretty special. If you are part of a couple, it reminds you to rekindle the romance in your relationship. If you’re flying solo, it’s a good reason to treat yourself to some sensual self-care and celebrate all the other people you love in your life.
If you think V-day is played out, maybe your gifting game just needs an upgrade. Flowers wilt and no one needs that much chocolate. Valentine’s Day – even if you only do the bare minimum to celebrate – is a time to celebrate your unique partner and the special love you share.
No one knows your partner’s personality better than you, so skim the options below to find the description that matches them best. Then check out the sexy gift ideas and imaginative activities below, specially catered to your partner’s style of passion. These unique and thoughtful gifts & date night ideas ideas will have you and your skeptical sweetie loving love all over again!

Fun-loving Flirt
You two are together because of your mutual love of FUN! You’ve never lost that child-like sense of play and imagination. That means your love life will always stay full of laughter and creativity. Show your lucky lady you’re ready to play with her in the fun & flirtatious Velvet And Lace Babydoll, available in standard and curvy sizes. For flirty fellas, help him slay the night away in a Solid Envy Jock in Pink & Blue.
Even if you’re not interested in picking up a new playmate, your playful partner will enjoy experimenting with the gift of flirty pheromone perfume for her or cologne for him. Not only do they smell amazing – they can help boost your sexual confidence and keep you frisky for each other well into your Valentine’s date night. Speaking of which, make sure your plans are sweet but not too serious, just like your lover. Try a ridiculously playful pillow fight, naughty Nerf gun battle, or a sexy bedroom game night…winner takes (it) all (off)!
Elegant (but a little Extra)
The embodiment of fabulousness, these lovers like to make sure everything is just a little over the top. They’ve likely been dreaming about the perfect candlelight dinner and night of seductive dancing you’re going to enjoy together for weeks now. We’re not calling these partners needy, exactly, but they know what their heart desires. Bring your A-game to your V-day gifts and plans to help their dream come true.
Honor the red hot bombshell they are in the Set The Tone Red Gloss Asymmetrical Dress, equally suitable for a night on the town or in the bedroom. A gorgeous & luxurious new sex toy like the Womanizer Next 3D Pleasure Air will make for a night of fabulous pleasure – solo or with an extra set of hands. We all know there are guys that love to go big or go home, too. The do-it-all Opulence Open Ended Cock Ring will bring you both peak pleasure with multiple ways to wear it. The Envy Snap Down Mesh Boxer Brief is the perfect fashion find for him…and you can find a couple extra sexy access points on it! Cook each other’s favorite dinnertime indulgences, light those candles, pour the champagne, and enjoy an elevated, elegant evening of celebrating your love. Then enjoy each other for dessert!


Comfy Casual Chic
This type of partner is your girl- or guy-next-door type of love. You know…the type everyone secretly dreams about? If you’re lucky to have found that type of love, Valentine’s Day is a perfect time to celebrate each other. Hold your lover close decked out in gift of some comfy but oh-so-sexy lingerie like the Rib Knit Bralette and High Waisted Short Set. Gift him some upgraded sexy loungewear, too, like the Wood Chestnut Drawstring Lounge Pants, perfect for an evening cuddling by the fireplace.
If your partner is this personality type, they likely crave just a quiet Valentine’s Day at home cozying up with you. Relax together with a casual dinner (heart-shaped pizza anyone?) and watch a favorite rom-com. Then get even closer when you give them a sensual massage (and more) with the tantalizing products in the Carnal Pleasures Collection. It will be a romantic finish to a night of quality time together, and will make for a Valentine’s Day as perfect as your love.
Cupid Herself (or Himself)
Hearts, flowers, chocolates, romance books and movies…they love it all! Love is in the air whenever you’re around these types. Romance is kind of an all-the-the time thing for them, so they LOVE Valentine’s Day when they can go all out.
Treat them to their favorite special date night. Tradition is important to this type of lover. You might already have a standing plan by now, whether it’s dinner & a movie or a weekend in bed together rekindling your romance. Don’t forget the rose petals! You’ll melt for each other all over again in the glow of a strawberry wine-scented massage oil candle. Gift her the best romantic lingerie you can find, like the Hearts Desire 3pc. Bra & Panty Set with Garter Belt (pictured). He can show off his heart-on in a racy red Playboy Logo Brief. Embrace your love of the mushy stuff (even if you have to pretend a little, just for today), and you’re guaranteed to have a very Happy Heart Day!


Dark & Dominant Date
Is your partner’s personality the antithesis of everything Valentine’s Day? They’ll still appreciate a reminder that you are thinking of them…just not in the form of a pink & red heart-print teddy bear! If your gothy guy or gal is way more into skulls and spiderwebs than hearts and flowers, fear not. You won’t be able to take your eyes (or your hands) off of your mistress if they don the Lyanna Wet Look And Fishnet Teddy, available in standard and curvy sizes. Or pair the Lust Iris Cage Mini Dress with some pasties that appeal to their darker interests if you’re heading out to a play party! Encourage your dark, brooding dude to put on a sexy show for you in a hot leather harness.
Once gifts have been exchanged and you’re both dressed, head off to your dungeo…er…bedroom, for some erotic BDSM playtime. Pick up some gear for the dom(me) to take charge with, or turn up the heat with some wax play (don’t forget the special candles!), and you’ll have an unforgettable evening of dark delights with your foxy fetish king or queen. Love slaps differently when you want it to! 😉