The winter wind blows cold and brings air sign Aquarius into its season in the sun. Read on to learn all about this sign and the people born under it. See what the month ahead has in store for you and your sex and love life. It’s written in the stars, after all!
Aquarius Spotlight:
- Dates: January 20th – February 18th
- Symbol: The Water Bearer
- Order of the sign in the Zodiac: Eleventh
- Element: Air (fixed)
- Ruling planet: Uranus – governs technology & innovation and guides surprising events, and Saturn – rules with discipline & pragmatism and teaches through life lessons.
- House ruled: 11th – House of Connections
- Power color: Blue – all shades. Light, airy blues represent your independent style, and soothing blues can help calm an Aquarius’ often overactive thoughts.
- Birth flower: Orchid
- Gemstone: Amethyst/Turquoise
- Signs for the best romantic compatibility: Gemini & fellow Aquarians
- Signs for the best sex match: Sagittarius
- Signs they may struggle to get along with: Taurus & Scorpio
- Strongest personality traits: Intelligent – Aquarians are whip-smart and very witty and value the ability to have intellectual discourse in a relationship, too; Imaginative; Unique – they definitely march to the beat of their own drum, but that makes their personality very intriguing; Adventurous – they treasure freedom and want to use to to try new things and explore everything that makes them curious; Sensual – They enjoy connecting to others through touch and experience the world through their senses more than others.
- Biggest challenges: Being understood – It can be hard for Aquarius folks to convey their thoughts, feelings, and ideas, especially because they can be so far-out sometimes. Other people, especially if they’re kind of set in their ways, just have a hard time picking up what they’re putting down; Selective – Aquarians may have a hard time making a love match because they have high standards and don’t play games. If they’re not interested in you right off the bat, they’ll tell you, and it’s over. Taking time for self-love & self-care – Aquarians are very concerned with the thoughts, emotions, and needs of others, sometimes to a fault. They will drop everything to be there for a friend or partner in need, but they sometimes tend to forget about taking care of their own needs and feelings in the process.
If you are an Aquarius in a relationship:
True love is one of those things you believe is out there, but you’re also a little terrified of it. You treasure your independence and you feel like relying on someone or having them solely rely on you is a dependency trap doomed to fail. This doesn’t have to be true at all when you can keep an open mind and open line of communication with a partner, and strive towards finding a healthy balance of loving support in the relationship. Do whatever reading, therapy, self care, etc. you need to in order to cultivate a healthy level of codependence with your romantic partner…because that’s definitely a thing!
You have always played by your own set of rules, but they are based on your very strong codes of ethics and morality. You’ve never put much stock in what “should” be done in most situations, but you know how to always do what is right. This strong moral compass and driving need to always smooth things over with people you feel you’ve wronged can help you maintain a very serene and diplomatic romantic relationship even when things get rough.
If you are in a relationship with an Aquarius (or would like to be):
The quickest way to woo an Aquarius is with your wit and intellect. They find intelligence very magnetic, and a sense of humor is a must, too. They love a fun, flirtatious relationship and may often find themselves in “friends with benefits” situations which they’ll have a hard time taking to the next level even if they want to. Be honest with your feelings with an Aquarian mate and encourage them to do the same. Your relationship will only be healthy and right if you talk about it.
Aquarius lovers are very physically passionate and in tune with their sexuality. Sex helps them connect more intimately with themselves and their partners, so make sure you’re having plenty of it and always keeping it interesting. Whether it pertains to sex, travel, work, or other adventures, appease your Aquarian lover by being willing to go with the flow and try new things they suggest. Their ideas may seem wild sometimes, but they’re always coming from a good place of strong intuition.
A tidbit of relationship advice for Aquarians:
Be open to love even if it feels scary. While it’s natural that you don’t want to depend on anyone and you don’t want anyone to depend on you, your heart longs for that intimate connection, and you deserve it! Be honest and communicative about your feelings for your person as things move along, and you’ll never feel stuck or trapped.
Aquarius Season Love & Sex Horoscopes For All Signs:
Love Yourself First to Love Your Partner Better
The sun in individuality-focused Aquarius puts the spotlight on YOU, literally and figuratively. It’s time to express yourself and let your freak flag fly, if you have one. You’ll feel more confident this month to truly be yourself, and you’ll realize what a breath of fresh air that can bring into your romantic relationship. By prioritizing YOUR needs, interests, and desires above all else, you’ll be better able to attract a perfect match or cultivate a great relationship with your partner. Embrace this season of personal growth and watch how quickly it boosts your sexual connection and the overall vibe of your partnership.
Manifest your Best
The New Moon in Aquarius’ first house on January 29th is a perfect opportunity for fresh starts and new beginnings no matter what your sign is. Set intentions for any areas of your life you’d like to see improvement in, and watch the magic start to happen. If you’re ready to attract love, spend some time focusing on manifesting your ideal partner. Let go of any lingering self-doubt and embrace your individuality. Your future lover is closer than you think, and that’s who they’ll be attracted to. If you’re in a relationship, think about how you want to show up in the coming month for yourself and for your partner. Work on establishing a new healthy habit that will benefit your partnership, or just focus on spending more time together creating shared visions of your beautiful future together. You’ll both find ways to bring your best self to the relationship and be your best selves, together.
Play Together
Uranus going direct in quirky Aquarius will send all sorts of unexpected twists and turns everyone’s way in the next month. Don’t let the weirdness get you down, though. Embrace change with the open-mindedness of an Aquarian & a sense of playfulness and see how much it changes your outlook. Taking life too seriously makes everything feel catastrophic. Shield your energy by embracing a spirit of playful togetherness. Play games together, play with sex toys in the bedroom, and immerse yourself in shared interests or hobbies even if they feel childish or silly to some. If you can look at things from a new angle and encourage your partner to do the same, you’ll find all sorts of fun opportunities where you might have only seen doom & gloom before.
Happy Birthday, Aquarians!
Aquarius-inspired Product Recommendations:
If there’s one thing Aquarians are amazing at, it’s coming up with new ideas and novel solutions to long-standing problems. Is one of those problems boredom in the bedroom? Let the stars guide you to some new sexy bedroom fashions and on-trend toys to spice things up again. These picks are perfect for putting some spicy sparkle back in your sex and/or self-love life this Aquarius season.
Top Toy for V-havers:
Celebrate the independence and freedom airy Aquarius season brings with the aptly named Womanizer Liberty 2. Womanizer’s patented Pleasure Air technology uses air to pulsate and flutter against your most sensitive parts. It feels less like suction, and more like it’s giving your clitoris perfect little kisses. The Liberty 2 packs all of that pleasure and favorite features into a discreet size with a cute little cover so it’s easy to take on the go.
Top Toy for P-havers:
It’s not only those with a clitoris that can enjoy the pleasurable power of air. The Swallow Suction Masturbator is your personal perfect blow job giver in a tube, any time you want it. You’re in total control with easy-to-access buttons on the end of this stroker. With 10 intensities of suction and 10 levels & patterns of added vibrations, you’ll find countless new ways for air to make you orgasm. It’s rechargeable, splashproof, and the sleeve is removable for easy cleaning.
Luckiest Lube:
Refresh your sex life with the natural power of water & plants with Simply Timeless Aqua Lubricant from Wicked. This naturally-based, vegan, never-tested-on-animals personal moisturizer is perfect for all of your sexual encounters, masturbation with or without toys, or just as a daily personal moisturizer. The hydrating ingredients in Simply Timeless are designed to rejuvenate and enrich your moisture level as you age. This lube is perfect for helping you feel your best as your natural lubrication levels change with time and hormone levels.
Air Sign Enhancement:
There’s not much better that goes with the air sign of the water bearer than some sparkly flavored mints that will freshen your breath AND get the waterworks flowing in your mouth. Flintts Mints in the NEW Cinnamon Ginger flavor are perfect for wetting your whistle for sexy time or any time at all. These flavorful mints create a more intense tingly sensation than some of the other flavors to really get your salivary glands going. They have just enough spice to turn up the heat in the bedroom, especially when you use all that extra saliva for an intense makeout session or the best BJ you’ve ever given.
Cosmically Kinky:
Sensual, seductive wax play can be a great intro to BDSM for the more sensitive lover who may not enjoy whips & chains. Let the safe, perfectly warm wax from the Whipsmart 3pc. Japanese Bondage Candles melt onto your lover’s skin in beautiful patterns while you give them a relaxing massage, and watch all their worries melt away.
Enlightening Reading:
Tantric Sex is a perfect intimate adventure to embark on for Aquarius season. The sensual nature of the touch, the positions, and the control of pleasure and release involved in Tantric sex are perfect for Aquarians’ sensuality and desire to experience exciting things. Learn how to do it all in The Ultimate Guide to Tantric Sex, and let the waves of ecstasy wash over you every time you try something new.
Intimate look for her:
Embrace your power color of rich navy blue while your lover embraces you. The Cecilia Navy Bustier & Panty w/ Rhinestone detail comes in both standard and curvy sizes. The luscious lace on the bra cups & strappy panty caress your curves in classic beauty. The criss-cross strap details on the bustier give it that old romantic French styling to make you & your lover say ooh-la-la. The subtle rhinestone details give it just enough bling to be fun & interesting, just like Aquarius divas.
Intimate look for him:
The psychedelic swirly print on the Galactic Mini Boxer Short is perfect for creating an “age of Aquarius” vibe. Enjoy the comfort of a smooth, covered elastic waistband and leg openings that won’t roll. A contoured front pouch shows off your bulge while surrounding it in comfy, breathable micro-mesh. The high-cut leg openings and smooth fit give you a cut & contoured silhouette. The trippy swirl in shades of blue, black, green, and fuschia are perfect for your free-spirited attitude. For the even more daring, it comes in a Strappy Ring Jock style, too!
Best Birthday gift for your Aquarius admirer:
If your Aquarian partner is celebrating their birthday soon, here’s the ultimate gift idea for them. Best part? It will benefit both of you for a long time to come!
The Essential Love Kit from Intimate Earth provides all the basics for amazing bedroom play sessions, but they all have a wonderful sensual twist. Made with natural & organic ingredients and none of the icky stuff, Intimate Earth’s lubes, sensation enhancements, and massage oils are perfect for a weekend getaway or a weekend in bed. Best part? It’s a Lover’s Lane exclusive, so your lover will know you shopped at the best store for romance for their special day!
