POSTED ON October 22, 2020
Go Scorpio, it's your birthday! Lots of positive changes are on the horizon for you this month, and you've definitely worked hard for them, so prepare to sit back and enjoy the ride for once! All of the other signs are here, too, so read on to see what the stars hold for your sex and love life as we tumble with the falling leaves into the heart of autumn.
Born from October 22nd to November 21st, Scorpios are that multi-faceted, emotionally deep third water sign, along with Cancer & Pisces. They're kind of a mystery wrapped in an enigma, though, and most people think they're a fire sign at first, because of their obvious intense passion, strength, and sometimes hot temper. They share in the water signs' layered personalities, though, and are kind of the bad-ass oldest sister of the water sign pack. A Scorpio is passionate and loyal to a fault, making them great to be partnered with...but they can also be secretive and obsessive...if you wrong them, they WILL find out, and it will not be pretty. Hell hath no fury like a scorpion scorned. Their symbol has that fierce & deadly stinger for a reason! Stay on their good side, though, and a Scorpio mate will bring a high sex drive, and fun-loving, curious personality to the table for a long time!
With the sun in your sign this month, you are unstoppable, just riding waves of happiness! If you're single and seeking, you may meet someone who appears to be your exact opposite, but the more you get to know them, the more common ground you'll find...or you may be happily partnered with someone you met in this way! You are absolutely magnetic right now and everyone will want face time with you...just make sure to allow enough down time for yourself and your lover to keep those batteries charged. With your tendency toward morbid curiosity, you're likely drawn to the dark side of kink & fetish play, and it's a great time to be adventurous and try something completely new, like electro-sex! You will feel beautiful and powerful wielding the Obsidian Neon Wand Intensity Kit, which will give you a safe but shocking surprise, and definitely more than you're used to in a sex toy experience!
Sagittarius: November 22 - December 21
Your loving power planet of Venus paired with Libra means a romantic month for you, archers! If you've been on the fence, it's time to tell that special someone how you really feel about them, even if you've been with that someone for years! Make a special night in for you and your lover with romantic rose petals, a massage candle, and a fun & flirtatious couple's toy that can be controlled by an app whether you're together or apart like the We-Vibe Chorus. Gifting your lover (or a potential mate) with gorgeous flowers or even a romantic poem or song you write from the heart will lead to over-the-top love and happiness for you this month.
Capricorn: December 22 - January 19
The sun in intense & powerful Scorpio affects you too, Caps, so you're in for a power play month...take full advantage of it! You are exuding sexual confidence, which you can boost even further with a pheromone perfume or cologne. If you've been in the dating game, you'll feel like suitors are practically lining up to be with you, and if you're happily partnered, it's time for rekindling that passionate romance between the two of you. Making time together, kissing, and trying a naughty game for lovers like Behind Closed Doors is your ticket to happiness this month, and when sex is the prize, no one ever loses!
Aquarius: January 2 - February 18
The blue moon at the end of October sends you into this month with some unanswered questions, but you're feeling pretty sure of how things will work out. Even if there are unresolved issues between you and an ex, the magnetism between you is undeniable right now, and even if you're partnered, this month grants you a romantic do-over if you need it. Embrace new experiences with your lover, such as trying a vibrating C-ring or even getting a little kinky with bondage restraints, and you'll show them that you are truly in this love for the long haul. Trust your instincts; the universe doesn't make you any promises it won't keep.
Pisces: February 19 - March 20
The blue moon in Taurus on October 31st sends you into November finally ready to believe in your magic. You might even find true love during this time, or rekindle it if you've been partnered for a while. It's an important month for healing & forgiveness; you are your own worse critic, and you deserve respite from things that have happened in the past which may be holding you back. Nurture this magical time for healing with cozy, comfortable romance rituals like couple's massages with energizing oils, and self love with the brand new but tried & true clitoral stimulation power of the Lelo Sila Massager. You deserve love & peace with your partner and your past self, and the sooner YOU truly believe and embrace that, the better!
Aries: March 21 - April 19
Your power planet of Mars is also Scorpio's, so you're riding the waves of this powerful pairing and your confidence is off the charts! You may be meeting with some resistance, though, from a lover or admirer. Emotions are running high right now and it may be hard to tell what your partner is thinking. Give them a comfortable space to express themselves with a couple's game like Mind, Body, Soul. Talking about what's on their mind is a fun way to connect, and just might lead to a healing romp between the sheets. Don't let jealousy or a fear of secrets get the best of you this month, and you'll get through it unscathed.
Taurus: April 20 - May 20
The blue moon in Taurus brings a haunting magic to you on Halloween, and that lunation lasts well into the month. Unfortunately, it brings with some "expect the unexpected" energy, which isn't your favorite game to play. You're yearning for comfort and safety. Take care of yourself with a tried & true classic toy like a bullet vibe or vibrating butt plug. Focus on sensuality with your partner, whether that means dressing up in a sexy lingerie set and just making out, or a couple's massage that leads to something more. Focus on building your bond; if you're happily coupled, you'll have a truly magical month, but if you're already on the rocks, jealousy or insecurity might take over. Take it slow, focus on self love, and you'll emerge victorious.
Gemini: May 21 - June 20
Loving Venus in fellow air sign, easygoing Libra, leads you into this month with a renewed sense of optimism about your love life. When it comes to love, you don't want to be tied down, but you do want to be happy. You're feeling good about your prospects, or like your love has real promise now...no reason to run from that! Stock up for a sexy winter spent with your love. Items like the Sex! Card Game full of fun new positions to try, and a sensual Sweet Kisses love kit will keep you cozy and warming each other up all year long, and will make sure you always have something to look forward to. You truly are better together, and it'll feel good to finally recognize that this month!
Cancer: June 21 - July 22
You want it all right now...the house, car, job, partner, love life, kids...everything perfect and in order. Life is usually a little messier than that, but practice patience and it will come. In November, you'll definitely be feeling grounded and secure with what you DO have in the moment, so enjoy it. You'll want to spend quiet evenings at home with your lover rather than going out partying. Make them special with sensuous lingerie made for lounging, and a plan to exchange some fun sexual favors with the Love Me Lotto scratchers. Single? You can hit the jackpot, too, by focusing on self love with an amazing new toy designed to give you something new & exciting, like the Double Penetrator Rabbit for her or an impressive stroker for him. See, you CAN have it all!
Leo: July 23 - August 22
You're heading into November with an air irresistible attraction around you. Seriously, everyone will want to be a part of your life right now. For once though, with the sun in mysterious Scorpio, you're not an open book. Playing hard to get is really sexy right now, and you should only open up to those you trust and foresee a future with. If you're partnered, you might think you both know everything there is to know about each other, but you can always learn more. Play a romantic game of You & Me to get to the intimate stuff, and end with fun sexual exchanges and a new couple's toy. Learning more about your lover means you'll feel like a winner even if you "lose"!
Virgo: August 23 - September 22
You're feeling a little conflicted this month: On one hand, you've got magic and romance in the air; the blue moon lunation on October 31st is telling you to step out of your comfort zone and take a chance on love...which won't end badly for you if you do! On the other hand, everything is telling you to be prudent & responsible right now. You can balance these seemingly conflicting desires by tying up loose ends before moving on, but also letting your heart lead the way. You can even keep your self or partnered love adaptable and fresh with a kit like Switch 5 by Shots. Go out there and close that financial or real estate deal, then go home and play with your lover 'til the sun comes up. Trust your intuition this month, and you can't go wrong!
Libra: September 23 - October 22
You're feeling open-minded and light this month. Your love is like a breath of fresh air, and you'll start to feel like everyone around you is less critical. It's a great time to experiment with some new things you've been wanting to try with your lover! Try a little BDSM fantasy or role play, or keep things balanced and new by trying a strap-on that vibrates for your pleasure, too...you know you've been curious! Your love life needs to be all about compromise, so a partner that always only wants things their way isn't for you. Keep those standards high, maintain a light & airy disposition and you'll have a great month...and no one will find out your dark, sexy secrets! 😉
A close sister set with the Neon Obsidian Intensity Kit suggested in Scorpio's reading, this electrosex kit from KinkLab will definitely take your love life to 11! This is about the most cutting-edge a sex toy can get...the charged particles inside the glass neon vacuum tubes will actually create a glowing neon appearance, while tingling and titillating the erogenous zones you use it on. It's like those cool plasma balls at the science museum...for adults! Keep the experiments going with the included glass wand attachments: an Electrode Comb, Mushroom Tube, 90° Probe, and Tongue Tube. As with any sex or kink toy, read the instructions carefully and use as directed, and the Neon Wand Kit will provide tons of zappy pleasure for you and your adventurous lover!