POSTED ON September 20, 2019
Spotlight: Born Between September 24 - Oct 23 Libras are prone to put others before themselves, which is what makes them great diplomats. It should be little to no surprise that Libras value balance and harmony the most. They're often able to see all sides of every situation enabling them to be more understanding than most. Libras are usually amazing friends for all the aforementioned reasons. They're also one of the most imaginative signs which is why they gravitate to jobs with more creative freedom and ingenuity.
Time to balance things out with some mutual masturbation Libra. Maybe you don't want to go full penetrative sex, but you're still in the mood and you want to have fun with your partner.
Scorpio: Oct 24 - Nov 22
Time for butt stuff! Now, don't be scared Scorpio, this could mean a lot of things. Anything from a non-penetrative anal massage to full on penis penetration. The good news is we have The Complete Guide to Butt Stuff, and if you have any other questions, please ask our Romance Specialist!
Sagittarius: Nov 23 - Dec 22
Strokers! Well, you might know them as pocket pussies, but these male masturbators take you on a wild and erotic ride straight to an orgasm. Most of them are stick your penis in and keep thrusting, but there's a lot to choose from. Do you want one that's realistic or not? Do you want a life size one, or regular stroker size? Do you want a blowjob stroker or an anal stroker? Do you want one in a plastic sleeve or no plastic sleeve? Are you a big football fan? It's all your choice. And for all you female Sagittariuses out there, if you get too tired, you can use one on your partner!
Capricorn: Dec 23 - Jan 20
Hey Capricorn, do you know what sex toys are right for you? Because there's a lot out there, especially for women! G-spot, clitoral, dildos: vibrating and non-vibrating, realistic and non-realistic, rabbit, wands, sex-machines, butt plugs, anal beads, wearable strap-ons. I mean, it's kind of crazy how much is actually out there.
Aquarius: Jan 21 - Feb 19
It's time to play games with your partner Aquarius, but not the manipulative selfish ones, sex games! Roll the dice and see what sexy activities you're in for or play a more structured board game like the popular Sensations. Take your foreplay to whole new levels and explore your partner's body unlike ever before. Great for new and long-time couples.
Pisces: Feb 20 - Mar 20
You've had 2 months of lingerie recommendations Pisces, so this month you need to take it all off and get ready for a massage, yes, you read that right, massage. One important thing to note is your want to make sure your hands are warm and your put the oil on your hands first, and not directly onto your partner's body. There's so many good oils to choose from. Intimate Earth's Bloom to Shunga's Libido to CBD Daily, you simply can't go wrong.
Aries: Mar 21 - Apr 20
When was the last time you used lube, huh Aries??? Similar to massage oils, there's SO MANY different kinds of lube. In fact, I think we have more lubes than massage oils. As you probably know, there's three kinds of lube: water-based, silicone, and hybrid, but hybrid's generally aren't 50/50. It depends on the company, but a lot of them that i've seen are 80/20, 85/15, or less silicone and more water. Important note: If you engage in anal sex you absolutely need lubricant. Your anus does not self-lubricate. Lube is also important in vaginal sex, and flavored lube makes oral significantly better.
Taurus: April 21 - May 21
Take some time to get back in tune with yourself and your partner, if you have one. Take a vacation. Go somewhere new. Pick up a new hobby that you've always wanted to try, or get back into an old one you loved before life hit and made you drop it. Life is too short not to live the way you want to live. It's your life. Live it the way you want to.
Gemini: May 21 - June 21
Ok Gemini, so you went from quickies, to long intimate love sessions, to lingerie, and now it's time to dip your toes into some BDSM. I know that can sound a little intimidating if you've never done anything like that, and if that's the case the best thing to start with is a blindfold, just a blindfold, then graduate up to just using handcuffs. When you're comfortable with that maybe try them together. After that explore whatever you want to. Just be sure that both partners consent to whatever it is. CONSENT IS ABSOLUTELY VITAL.
Cancer: June 22-July 22
When was the last time you got your partner a romantic gift? Or for all you single Cancer's, when was the last time you got yourself a nice gift? There's nothing wrong with chocolate and roses, but it's good to switch it up every once in a while? Candles, massage oils, games, even a funny card are all great gifts to let them know how much you care about them.
Leo: July 23 - Aug 21
Fantasies. Leo, this month is all about fantasies. Your fantasies. Your partner's. Every fantasy you two have had. Now, you two need to talk about your fantasies, because it's likely they will not be comfortable with all of them, and that's ok. You should never push your partner to do something they don't want to do. At the same time, you should indulge your partner's fantasies every once in a while. Now, this doesn't mean the super kinky hogtie ones, unless you want to be hogtied. I don't judge. If they fantasize about fucking you, or being fucked, in a specific position that's not dangerous, maybe try it.
Virgo: Aug 22 - Sep 23
Do whatever feels good, which consent of course. Nothing happens without consent. If you want to try a new position and your partner is down with it, go for it! If you want to dip your toes into BDSM, tell your partner you want to be blindfolded. If you want a massage or want to give a massage, tell them. You want to strip for them? Do it! You want to try butt stuff? Talk about it! Don't let what you think of something, or better yet, what you think other people would think about it, stop you from doing what you want.