As nights are getting cooler and it becomes nicer to stay inside and snuggle, you may be wondering what lies ahead for your romantic life. Libra season is here, and just like those lucky Librans love to do, everyone should focus on enjoying a little self-indulgence this time of year. Whether single or coupled, spend a little time trying to make your outside environment as beautiful as you are inside! Spend time in nature and let the falling leaves inspire you to fall in love!
Spotlight: Ruled by loving Venus, the smart, smooth, and easygoing air sign of Libra belongs to those born between September 23 and October 22nd. Libra’s symbol of the scale reflects the Libran’s obsession with harmony and balance. Librans are some of the most diplomatic and charismatic folks out there; they can get along with anyone, anywhere. Being able to adapt to new situations and fit in in new social circles is a bit like a sport for them. Librans don’t usually enjoy being alone, so it helps that they have a huge pool of crushes & potential admirers to choose from when looking for love. Libras are seemingly chill, but they hate mess, disorder, and chaos. In a less-than-perfect situation, they may be the first to say, “it is what it is”…but they sure as hell worked at controlling every aspect of it as much as humanly possible! Taurus, Aquarius, and Geminis all make wonderful companions for a Libra, but an Aries mate brings them the most passionate sex!
Librans, you know you’re one of the most charming, beautiful, and flirtatious signs, right? It’s easy to forget with your busy calendar of obligations, but make time to use those traits to your advantage this month. Focus on reigniting the flame of passion between you and your partner – it has been dimming for awhile now as you’ve been busy improving yourself! A gorgeous and luxurious sex toy like the Le Wand Chrome Bullet would make a great Sweetest Day gift to help buzz up your sex life. If you’re a solo sweetie, don’t sweat it…just treat yo’ self to the latest in sex tech! The Snail Vibe for her or the Sam Neo Male Masturbator for him will take your orgasms to the next level, all without the aid of a partner. Focus on staying calm & grounded this month, and everything else will fall into place.
Scorpio: October 23 – November 21
Commitment-focused asteroid Vesta enters your sign on September 20th, and it’s a powerful pairing with your already dedicated nature, Scorpio. Surface-level relationships have never been enough for you, but now it’s really time to take your relationship deeper. You’re feeling fiercely loyal & protective of your partner and your relationship. Nurture and grow that good thing you’ve got going by bonding through couple’s massages, or an intimate game that makes learning about your lover sexy. Flying solo right now? Self-love and self-care are the main ways you can manifest Vesta’s energy in your life, so don’t be afraid to make some time for me time. Whatever you dedicate your efforts & energy to this month will pay off, big time.
Sagittarius: November 22 – December 21
You have a way with words this month, Sags; use it to your advantage. Just don’t get too bossy, unless your partner likes it that way 😉 ! This is a perfect time to have a heart-to-heart with your lover about anything that may be wrong in your relationship…and work on fixing it, together! Your compassionate and understanding side is also showing through. Make sure you listen as well as talk, and be a comfort to your partner if necessary. If you’re single and seeking, your gift of gab will impress any potential matches, as well. If you dedicate yourself to improving your love life this October, it will come easily.
Capricorn: December 22 – January 19
Your partner may have complained to you lately that you’re not paying enough attention to them…and honestly, you’re probably not. While you almost always put work before love, you’ve been particularly emotionally detached for a bit now. Reconnect with your lover through a warm, soothing intimate massage. Set aside a special night for the most romantic, passionate sex you’ve ever had, complete with new lingerie and rose petals on the bed. If you’re riding solo right now, that’s okay, too! You’re intensely focused on YOUR needs and desires, and can go after them! You do you, boo!
Aquarius: January 20 – February 18
If you are coupled, Aquarius, the energy between you two is absolutely electrical right now! You and your partner are both vibing on the same creative and exciting wavelengths. Whatever you’re doing, keep doing it, full steam ahead! If you do have any difficulties to overcome right now, think outside of the box to solve them. It won’t take much convincing to get anyone standing in your way over to your side. If you’re single and seeking, pursue your own passions for now and don’t overthink things. If you do what you love, love will find you.
Pisces: February 19 – March 20
October may bring some changes for you, but they will be positive and for the best. Whether it’s cleaning and purging things from your home, or spending your free time getting closer with your love, this month will be good for nurturing the things that belong in your life, and eliminating the things that no longer serve you. If that involves a breakup, it will be hard at first, but remember that your happiness is more important. Spend some cool fall evenings snuggling with your sweetie in this comfy romper (which also provides easy access for butt stuff!). Take everything in stride this month and you’ll come out on the other side happier!
Aries: March 21 – April 19
The Mars-Saturn trine on September 25th sends you into October on a powerful high note. Your leadership abilities, negotiation skills, and charisma are on point like never before. And oh by the way, you’re looking even hotter, stronger, and sexier than usual, so you’ll be absolutely irresistible to anyone who has their eye on you. Don’t be afraid to get a little boost from a pheromone perfume, though. Use this month to go after the dreams and desires you’ve been chasing, especially if they involve improving your relationship or love life. Once you set your mind to something, the obstacles will fall away naturally.
Taurus: April 20 – May 20
The sun in airy Libra this month sends you some good vibes, too, since you both share romantic Venus as your ruling planet. This new easygoing attitude is a refreshing change, and it will be noticed by your partner or any potential love interests. Keep that chillaxed mood going in the bedroom with some peaceful couple’s massage or a lighthearted game that will leave you both in stitches…and with all your clothes on the floor. Everything is going pretty well for you this month, but you’ll be open to suggestions to make it even better!
Gemini: May 21 – June 20
Your mind has had more time to wander, encouraging lots of daydreams and fantasies, many of them romantic or sexual in nature. It’s time to turn up the creative juices and turn fantasy into reality. This is an excellent time to talk to your partner about any romantic wishes you are keeping secret; they’ll probably be more on board than you think! Maybe you can work out a compromise: if they’ll indulge your BDSM or role play fantasy, even experimentally, you’ll treat them to a sweet and sexy breakfast in bed the next morning.
Cancer: June 21 – July 22
This month is all about creativity and imagination for you. If your wildest wishes are going to come true, it’s up to you to make it happen. Flex those creative muscles by roleplaying as the main character in a steamy erotica novel. Maybe a sexy nurse/patient scenario is more your speed? Or a super hot mutual masturbation session with new toys for him and for her? If you’re trying to attract someone, that is likely something you can manifest right now, too. You get to paint your love life exactly how you want it this month, so enjoy!
Leo: July 23 – August 22
Things have been going pretty smoothly for you in life and in love, but Mercury Retrograde in flighty Libra may throw a temporary wrench in the works. The beginning of your month will be filled with misunderstandings, miscommunications, and just a feeling of the universe being out of order. Keep your head up and focus on solutions to those problems; just don’t make any major decisions during this time. If you’re partnered, remember that they are there with you through it all. Do your best to block out the distractions and focus on enjoying peaceful, romantic moments with your lover to help you find a little more zen this month.
Virgo: August 23 – September 22
Your motto for this month should be “expect the unexpected”. Single and not really looking? An admirer might come out of nowhere and sweep you off your feet. Coupled and things have gotten a little stale? Lookout for your lover to do something zany, like some exciting bondage play or enjoying a new couple’s toy in the boudoir. Whatever plans you make, in sex, love and life, remember to have a backup plan…and don’t get too disappointed when things don’t go your way. They won’t usually go badly, per say, but they will definitely not go how you originally planned! Strap in and have fun!