Ho-Ho-OHHH! Holiday Fetish Role Play Fun
The holidays are all about traditions, which is why we think it’s time to break out of the wholesome, family mode for an evening or two. Christmas always focuses on ‘fun for the whole family,’ so send the kids to Grandma’s house, pop open a bottle of spiced winter wine, and take a kinky break […]
Happy Spanksgiving! The Best Impact Play Toys for BDSM Lovers
For the uninitiated, impact play is the fancy name given to the act of spanking or hitting for erotic enjoyment or sexual arousal. Impact play is one of the most common and popular forms of BDSM play. It is an easy and inexpensive way for even the most vanilla folks to dip their toes into […]
Can Kinking it Up Improve Your Relationship?
The simple answer to that question is easy: Yes; getting kinky with your lover can indeed help improve your relationship! That answer, though, does come with a huge, sexy ‘but’, as in “Kink cannot exist without consent.” So says Elyssa Helfer LMFT in her very serious article “Working with Kink: Shifting the Clinical Perspective” in […]
Enter the Kink Exploratorium
July 24th is National BDSM Day. In order to celebrate, I wanted to take you on a tour of a virtual “Kink Exploratorium”. Envision yourself in a sex-positive, safe, and comfortable space; a large room, surrounded by practitioners of all the kinkiest stuff you can think of. Situated at individual stations around the room like […]
BDSM 101: Bondage Beyond Basics
Curious about kink, but not sure if BDSM is right for you? Maybe you’re into the idea, but haven’t started the conversation with your partner yet. Perhaps you already have some gear in your pleasure chest, but it’s gathering dust because you don’t know what to do with it. This post is for you! We’ll […]
The ABCs of BDSM: A Kinky Dictionary
Kink. Fetish. BDSM. Bondage. Role Play. Domination & submission. Whatever you call it and whatever aspects of it you’re into (or curious about), you might find its definition or some more information in this handy little glossary! A kink by any other name is still just as much fun! Whether you and your lover have […]
