Happy Spanksgiving! The Best Impact Play Toys for BDSM Lovers

For the uninitiated, impact play is the fancy name given to the act of spanking or hitting for erotic enjoyment or sexual arousal. Impact play is one of the most common and popular forms of BDSM play. It is an easy and inexpensive way for even the most vanilla folks to dip their toes into […]

Can Kinking it Up Improve Your Relationship?

The simple answer to that question is easy: Yes; getting kinky with your lover can indeed help improve your relationship! That answer, though, does come with a huge, sexy ‘but’, as in “Kink cannot exist without consent.” So says Elyssa Helfer LMFT in her very serious article “Working with Kink: Shifting the Clinical Perspective” in […]

BDSM 101: Bondage Beyond Basics

Curious about kink, but not sure if BDSM is right for you?  Maybe you’re into the idea, but haven’t started the conversation with your partner yet.  Perhaps you already have some gear in your pleasure chest, but it’s gathering dust because you don’t know what to do with it.  This post is for you!  We’ll […]

The ABCs of BDSM: A Kinky Dictionary

Kink.  Fetish. BDSM. Bondage. Role Play.  Domination & submission.  Whatever you call it and whatever aspects of it you’re into (or curious about), you might find its definition or some more information in this handy little glossary!  A kink by any other name is still just as much fun!  Whether you and your lover have […]