Can Kinking it Up Improve Your Relationship?

The simple answer to that question is easy: Yes; getting kinky with your lover can indeed help improve your relationship! That answer, though, does come with a huge, sexy ‘but’, as in “Kink cannot exist without consent.” So says Elyssa Helfer LMFT in her very serious article “Working with Kink: Shifting the Clinical Perspective” in […]

What are YOU Into? (Learning and Loving your Kink Persona)

If you are fairly new to any kind of kink community, or even just beginning to become curious about BDSM and kinky bedroom activities or starting to explore them with your partner, it can be hard to know how where to begin. There are so many different kinds of kinks, levels of power dynamics, and […]

BDSM 101: Bondage Beyond Basics

Curious about kink, but not sure if BDSM is right for you?  Maybe you’re into the idea, but haven’t started the conversation with your partner yet.  Perhaps you already have some gear in your pleasure chest, but it’s gathering dust because you don’t know what to do with it.  This post is for you!  We’ll […]