The Best Kind of Love: Self Love

The Best Kind of Love: Self Love
POSTED ON February 14, 2019

Now that we spent a whole day admiring our partners, or maybe you spent it with some friends if you're single, it's time to admire yourself, yes, love yourself!

Taking Care of You

A lot of people don't take care of themselves the way they should. It's too easy to let our own needs fall by the wayside while we take care of everything & everyone else. There's tons of sayings and cliches about love and relationships, don't worry, we won't be using those, well maybe just one, only because it hits the root of it all. When you love yourself, you're not only able to love others, but that love becomes exponentially stronger. How can you do something for other people if you can't do it for yourself? Learn to love yourself and you can love the whole world.

Loving yourself can take many different forms, and yes masturbation is one of the biggest kinds but we'll save the best for last. Here are some other suggestions for me-time:

Movie night: grab your favorite movie your favorite snack, put on some comfortable clothes, burrito yourself in some comfy blankets, plop down on the couch or your be, and press play.

Binge a new series: Whether you have Netflix, Amazon Prime, Hulu or whatever else, there's lots of great shows out there constantly being made and some fantastic old ones too so kick back and veg out for a while. Turn off your mind and relax, your brain needs a break every once in a while.

Devour a new book: Some people need more mental stimulation, not less, and a good book satisfies that desire. If you have a favorite author, pick up their newest book, or one you haven't read yet. Maybe go choose a new author and dive into their world. Few things in life are better than a good book.

Pick up a New Hobby: If you're the kind of person that feels good when they're productive and doing something then movie night might not be the best choice for you. Instead, try a new hobby. Is there anything that you've ever wanted to try or pick up? Go for it, you might find a whole new passion. Being active and doing something you want can feel great.


The main idea here is to treat yourself. Do something for yourself that you don't usually do and do it right. Now it's time to get into the really fun stuff. Physical self love is practiced by many but mastered by few. Stroking and rubbing one out yourself is good and gets the job done, but it's time to treat yourself.

Ladies, there's so many different kinds and ways to be pleasured, but we'll just highlight three different toys that'll make achieving the big O much easier when used right. First up is the Volta. Clitoral stimulation is super important for a lot of women, in fact, most actually need it to climax. So if you don't want to miss out on the pinnacle of pleasure, then the Volta is for you. Second up, but second to no other g-spot toy, is the We-vibe Rave. Yes, you too can have an amazing g-spot orgasm, it's not a myth and the Rave can help you get there. Last, but certainly not least is the Bodywand Rechargeable Massager. Wands are packed with power and great for clitoral stimulation, among other things, so you can have the orgasm of your dreams.

As for all you gents out there, there are two absolutely fantastic toys that you need to try if you want to experience a whole new level of self love. Now, we've sung the praises of the Apollo Alpha Stroker 2, and even though that's our best, there's still other strokers out there worthy of your time, like the Vivid Raw Hot Ass Pussy Heated Stroker. It's made to be hyper realistic so it's supposed to feel exactly like the real thing, especially with the heating feature that goes up to 131°F/55°C. Not to mention it's got 5 out of 5 from two reviews. We've talked about the next one before, but simply because it's so innovative we want to make sure everyone knows about it whether you're a long time Intimacy Advisor fan or new to the blog. Let me (re-)introduce you to the Manta, by Fun Factory. It's crafted specifically to maximize male pleasure and keep you moaning for more.

Maybe you're an anal adventurer and want to pair a new booty toy with your masturbatory expedition. In that case, try out the top rated B-Vibe Rimming Butt Plug or the Flexi Felix Anal Beads.

Love Yourself!

-The Intimacy Advisor


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