Come Together: Fixing Mismatched Libidos

If you’re in a loving, romantic, and supposedly sexual relationship but your bedroom has started to feel less like a dreamy wonderland and more like a World War II battlefield, then you may be experiencing a phenomenon known as “sexual desire discrepancy.” According to an article entitled “What to know about mismatched sex drives” in […]
Social Distanced Sex Drive: Has the Pandemic Permanently Changed our Love Lives?

At a time when everyone needs to be closer than ever to heal from more than two years of pandemic pandemonium, we’re still not sure what’s completely safe. Is COVID-19 still dominating the world and morphing into an ongoing series of different strains? Have we evolved to endemic conditions where we can live more openly […]
Turn Me On (Up There): What Neuroscience Says About the Brain’s Role in Arousal & Orgasm

When you’re having sex with someone you love and are entwined in a deeply sexual relationship with, it sometimes feels like your brain has nothing to do with it. You’re all a whirling blur of arms, legs, lips, skin, eyes, and those electrically charged parts in your deep south. Modern science and medical technology, however, […]
Asking for (and Offering) the Sex you Both Crave

The day-to-day routine that many of us find ourselves in can lead to fatigue, stress…and unfortunately, a lowered sexual appetite. Combine that with the requirements of work, kids, and all those other responsibilities, and suddenly just finding the time & energy to have sex disappears. Especially if you have been in the same relationship for […]
Ask Dr. Love: Q&A with a Sex Therapist

Let’s face it…sex, love, and marriage aren’t always sunshine and rainbows. As much as we would like our closest relationships to cruise along without incident and without much effort, they take WORK! Sometimes, though, no matter how hard we try, we will still need a professional to listen, assist, and support us as we work […]