Fetishes: You’re Normal, We Promise

Many people have a sexual fetish, and many of those fetishes, while common, may feel very taboo. Someone with a true fetish, though, needs to be comfortable with expressing their fetish and be able to share it with partners so they can incorporate it in their sex lives. Keeping a true fetish a secret could […]

Can Kinking it Up Improve Your Relationship?

The simple answer to that question is easy: Yes; getting kinky with your lover can indeed help improve your relationship! That answer, though, does come with a huge, sexy ‘but’, as in “Kink cannot exist without consent.” So says Elyssa Helfer LMFT in her very serious article “Working with Kink: Shifting the Clinical Perspective” in […]

Enter the Kink Exploratorium

July 24th is National BDSM Day. In order to celebrate, I wanted to take you on a tour of a virtual “Kink Exploratorium”. Envision yourself in a sex-positive, safe, and comfortable space; a large room, surrounded by practitioners of all the kinkiest stuff you can think of. Situated at individual stations around the room like […]

BDSM 101: Bondage Beyond Basics

Curious about kink, but not sure if BDSM is right for you?  Maybe you’re into the idea, but haven’t started the conversation with your partner yet.  Perhaps you already have some gear in your pleasure chest, but it’s gathering dust because you don’t know what to do with it.  This post is for you!  We’ll […]

The ABCs of BDSM: A Kinky Dictionary

Kink.  Fetish. BDSM. Bondage. Role Play.  Domination & submission.  Whatever you call it and whatever aspects of it you’re into (or curious about), you might find its definition or some more information in this handy little glossary!  A kink by any other name is still just as much fun!  Whether you and your lover have […]